Los Angeles Matchmakers Reveal 5 Signs You’re Not in Love

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Love isn’t in the cards for some couples, even if they’ve been together for many years. It is possible to fall out of love in your relationship even if you’re love was once strong.

In this blog, our Los Angeles matchmakers here at LA Singles Dating Service are going to show you the telltale signs you’ve lost the love for your partner.

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1. You pick fights over little things.

If you’re constantly looking for an excuse to be upset, you might subconsciously be looking for a reason to break up with your partner. When you’re truly in love with someone, little things don’t bother you as much – and even when they do, you learn to let them go or to fix the problem as quickly as possible before it can hurt your relationship.

2. You focus on their flaws rather than their good qualities.

Instead of their quirks being endearing, they really just irritate the life out of you. You’re not going to love everything about any one person you’re with, but if absolutely everything bothers you, you definitely aren’t in love with them. Truly happy and “in love” couples care more about each other’s good qualities than the little imperfections.

3. You constantly complain about them to your friends.

You find yourself talking negatively about your partner to your friends and family more often than you’re bragging about the good things. It’s normal to need to vent about your frustrations regarding your significant other sometimes, but if that’s all you’re doing when you get together with your friends, you might not really be in love with them after all.

4. You don’t care to share experiences with them.

You might find yourself preferring to do things alone or always going out without them. If this is the case, you might not really be in love. People whom are truly in love are usually best friends and want to experience life together at least some of the time. If you’re always going about your own life, then you’re not in love with them.

5. You keep secrets.

There may be a lot of things your partner doesn’t know about you. If you have secret debt or an addiction that you can’t tell them about, it’s not a good sign. Even if you’re keeping something small from them, like the fact that you secretly hate their cooking, for example, it means you can’t be authentic and real with them. If you can’t tell your partner all of your deepest secrets and you can’t be honest with them about everything going on in your life, sorry, but you’re not really in love with them.

So tell us, are you in love or just wasting your time with the wrong partner? Life’s too short not to be happy and totally head over heels in love.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded singles in LA, contact our Los Angeles matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. Let us introduce you to quality singles in Los Angeles with whom you share long-term compatibility.

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