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In the movies and on TV shows, a woman goes through a difficult break-up and heads for a bucket of ice-cream, calls her besties, or totally hits rock bottom. In real life, it’s a much more painful process and takes a long time get through.

Getting your heart broken is a truly tough thing to deal with. It’s even worse when you wish that you and your boyfriend hadn’t broke up to begin with. When you break up for a reason that can be fixed – maybe one of you went through something hard that put too much stress on the relationship for the time being, or you’ve been in a long-distance relationship – it’s hard not to want things to go back the way the used to be. But instead of showing up at his house crying and begging him to take you back, is there anything you can do to win him back?

Yes, as it turns out, there are many different things you can do, and before you know it, you might be his girlfriend again.

Today, the best Beverly Hills matchmaking service, Los Angeles Singles, will show you how to win him back.

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1. Post happy selfies on social media.

You know that you love taking selfies already. Who doesn’t, right? When you are posting selfies after you breakup, you definitely want to put your best foot forward, so to speak (the best photo).

When you consider the kind of person that you want to date, it’s always more attractive when someone is cheerful, optimistic, and just seems to have their life in order. The same is true when you’re taking photos of yourself and posting them on social media. You want to look super happy and like you’re enjoying life to the fullest (even if you want to cry on the inside). It’s not a lie, exactly – you just don’t want to post sad photos online.

No one likes to see sad photos anyways. Plus, it makes you look like you are crying for attention. You want him to think that you’re the same person that you were when you two first met.

2. Don’t text him for a little while.

It can be tempting to keep texting your ex-boyfriend after you have gone your separate ways. You were so used to doing this before, why do you have to change your regular routine? And why do you have to cut the communication? He was your best friend and the person you talked to many times during the day. It’s really hard to just stop talking to him.

Yeah, that might be true, but if you really want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you definitely can’t text him anymore. Don’t worry, it’s just for a little. But it’s best to take a step back and focus on yourself and your own life. If you stay in close contact with your ex right after the breakup, things will only get confusing and you might fall back into old patterns that don’t help you out at all.

Even though you might not like it at first, you won’t regret putting your phone down and not texting him for a while. Text your best friend instead and they’ll keep you busy from thinking about him.

3. See if his mom or sister will meet up with you.

If you were close to his family, it makes sense that you would have developed strong connections with his mother and sister.

See if his mom and/or sister will meet up with you for coffee or dinner. Doing this will definitely get back to him and make him miss you even more since he will realize that you still want to stay close to his family. Before long, he’ll remember the good old ways when you were all one big happy family.

You can also use this as an opportunity to ask how he’s doing and get the real story. You know that his mom and sister will take the chance to tell you how he’s coping with the breakup, whether he wants to get back with you, and if he’s dating someone new. You can also enlist them to help you guys get back together if that’s something that you feel you want to do. If they think that you guys belong together, they will absolutely stand in your corner and help you win him back.

If you’re single and want to meet relationship-minded singles in LA, contact the best Beverly Hills matchmaking service today and let our professional matchmakers make the introductions for you. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.

 

 

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